Message Notes
James 3:5-6 – Our tongues are more dangerous than we realize.(MULTILINE REVEAL SMALL)
James 3:13-16 – Our words reveal what’s in our hearts.(MULTILINE REVEAL SMALL)
James 3:17-18 – Heaven’s wisdom will be heard on our lips.(MULTILINE REVEAL SMALL)
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Peace From the
- James 3:7-12(MULTILINE REVEAL SMALL)
- Pause Before You Post or Speak(MULTILINE REVEAL SMALL)
- Replace Criticism with Blessing(MULTILINE REVEAL SMALL)
- Handle Conflict with Humility(MULTILINE REVEAL SMALL)
- Matthew 5:8-9(MULTILINE REVEAL SMALL)
- Guard Against Gossip(MULTILINE REVEAL SMALL)
- Cultivate Wisdom by Taking Your S.I.P.S. (Sing, Investigate, Pray, Stay)(MULTILINE REVEAL SMALL)
Discussion Guide
CHECKING IN
Think of a time when someone’s words brought you encouragement or peace. What impact did it have on you?(MULTILINE REVEAL SMALL)
CONVERSATION
- What is one thing that stood out to you from Sunday’s message?(MULTILINE REVEAL SMALL)
- Have you ever heard, “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me”? How does it make you feel?(MULTILINE REVEAL SMALL)
CONSIDERATION
- As part of your S.I.P.S. (Sing, Investigate, Pray, Stay) for today, read James 3:3-18 and then answer the following questions.
- What is the meaning and significance of the contrast between earthly wisdom and heavenly wisdom in today’s passage?(MULTILINE REVEAL SMALL)
- James compares the tongue to a fire and a restless evil. Why do you think our words carry so much power to build up or destroy?(MULTILINE REVEAL SMALL)
- We read wisdom from above is “peaceable, gentle, open to reason.” How does that challenge the way we typically communicate in disagreements?(MULTILINE REVEAL SMALL)
- How does one subdue and tame the tongue? Why is this an ongoing practice rather than a once-and-done decision?(MULTILINE REVEAL SMALL)
CONNECTION
- What practical steps can you take this week to ensure your words reflect God’s wisdom and bring peace?(MULTILINE REVEAL SMALL)
- How can our small group or church family grow into a community that consistently uses words to bring peace?(MULTILINE REVEAL SMALL)
ADDENDUM:
MARRIAGE GROUPS
CONVERSATION
When was the last time you intentionally reached out to connect with another couple?(MULTILINE REVEAL SMALL)
CONSIDERATION
- James says the tongue is like a small spark that can set a whole forest on fire (v. 5–6). How have you seen that play out in marriage—positively or negatively?(MULTILINE REVEAL SMALL)
- James describes wisdom from above as “pure, peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of mercy” (v. 17). Which of these qualities do you think your words most often reflect in your marriage? Which one do you want to grow in?(MULTILINE REVEAL SMALL)
CONNECTION
What practical steps can you both take this week to use your words to create a more peaceful and loving atmosphere in your home? (MULTILINE REVEAL SMALL)